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It's hard to make everybody happy in a family. Sometimes it can be a hopeless cause when you have family members who want to stir the pot with trouble. Life can be complicated at times and other times it can be great. Lately,I feel like some people think different of me because I am having therapy to deal with past issues in my life,but,I don't feel that it makes me any less of a person than before. I just don't like being used by people like in the past and it makes it very difficult to have a relationship with a person like this. I have started to look at things in a different way and also people in my life,I look at them differently,to see if they are being genuine with me. I have even had to do this with my own children and I find that very hard to accept,but,I must accept it and move on with my life. The last few months have been like a learning experience for me,I have been seeing people and situations from a new point of view. I don't feel that a person should have to accept being treated badly by their own family members,just because they think that they can get by with it. I feel like over the years I have been taken advantage of and taken for granted by my family,and I don't want that anymore. Am I wrong for feeling this way? I only want to be treated the way I treat people,and I feel that I have always been loving and kind to my family. I can't help but wonder which ones really love and care about me. People don't stop to realize how much of what they say can affect a person. You should always think about another person's feelings before saying things to them. Words can cut deep into the heart and some words are never forgotten,no matter how hard you try to forget them. I guess that I am trying to say that some people never follow the golden rule in their lives. I feel that a person has to stand up for theirself and be firm about the way they are being treated or you will just be run over. We are all somebody special in our own way and should be treated that way.
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