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My baby sister and I went for a short visit to our father's for her birthday and father's day. I must say that I did not enjoy this visit like the past few because I felt like my father was taking advantage of me on this visit. I began to realize that he only wanted me to come over to clean for him. I feel like he treats me different now that I am not working and on medication for my nerves. I know he has always been closer to my baby sister but I just felt like he could have shown a little more love my way. Maybe I was just reading into things more than they were,I don't know. I tried to enjoy the visit but it was very difficult for me because I was seeing so many things as they were taking place and I feel that I was starting to wake up to reality. It is the little things that bother me most like him providing better food for her visit and spending a lot more money than when my husband and I make a visit to see him. He never offered any thanks or anything for the things that I did for him it is like he just expects it from me everytime I come over. This makes me feel like he just wants me for his maid or something. I really feel like he does not appreciate what I do for him. I came back home feeling really upset about the visit and told my husband about what happened and he said he had seen this happening all along. I guess it was hard for me to see it because he is my father. I don't know when I will make another visit to see him in the future,I will have to take some time to think this matter over.
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